If mothers do work to equal that of a woman working full-time in an office, then why is it so bad if the State chooses to help single mothers out by means such as food stamps, welfare, WICK, and other programs of that type? It strikes me that there is a horrendous contradiction between the public support that insists that we must be all for stay-at-home moms and the classic anti-welfare line that typecasts every single mom who receives assistance as someone who is morally corrupt and simply attempting to rip off the moral and hard-working taxpayer.
Frankly, it is only possible to pull off the contradiction by typecasting welfare recipients as either being black, drug-using, and riding a Cadillac or white and trash. But, this mysteriously means that we laud the stay-at-home mom while at the same time trying to do away with programs that allow single women to be stay-at-home moms. In fact, in the current climate, it means that the true stay-at-home mom is either upper middle-class or rich. Or, they are in a family that has chosen voluntary poverty (or at least a very lower middle class) in order to make sure that the mom gets to stay at home.
Think about it, if being a stay-at-home mom is a full-time job, then why is it so wrong to help out such a mom financially?
OrthoCuban: So … stay at home moms work full-time? Then why is it so bad if they receive welfare? (via azspot)
and anyway i would rather stay home with my children and school them my damn self and send them out into the world as fully loved and attended to, confident, bright and intelligent beings than shove them off on someone i can’t trust to take care of them the way i do and pray they don’t get rape/ molested, beaten, stolen, killed, poisoned, neglected, or otherwise mistreated. and i know for damn sure aint nobody gonna take care of my babies the way i do, especially since they are black men in training. and if that makes me a target then hey, fuck u. the bigger influence i have on them and the better we bond the better off they will be. so ima stay home and chase them rather than chase a piece of paper.
(via lucifornication)
As Noam Chomsky always says. Women (or people) raising children are doing significant work for the society and they ought to be paid for it.