what is the most helpful perspective on my current interest in rekindling a previously ended romantic relationship, based off of my investment in our rapport, similarity, and potential for communication? (thank you!!)

Seven of Wands

You are going to need to work for it. Don’t think for a
second your old tricks will work. They may seem effective, but you don’t want
to give the impression of a repeat. Use aspects of your self that are as yet
unknown to them.